A place to call home.


I haven’t written for a while. I’ve been through a bit of a rough patch and it’s never easy to write about that, or to write about something different when that’s not really what’s on one’s mind.

After much thought, I’ve decided that this journey of blogging must be open and honest if my blog is to be what was intended at the start. A platform for us to think differently about the world in which we and our children live, and how we impact on the people around us – to strive for the world that we want for ourselves and our children.

South Africa is my home and it is home to my family. It is a crazy beautiful, vibrant place. A place of many cultures and languages. Stories and smiles. Natural beauty and dance. Music and innovation. Hope and ambition.

It is also a violent place. A society in turmoil. A society that is in need of leadership. So much better than it was before 1994 in so many ways; but also so very far off from the free, equal, happy and prosperous society that we had hoped for in 1994.

I came face to face with this dichotomy when I was recently held up in my home in an armed robbery by fellow South Africans. In my home. While my son was in a room close by with his grandfather and I feared for their safety. The robbers took what they wanted and eventually left. The police came to take statements and open a case number, but I hold no hope of anyone being held to account. And I’m sure that these people have freely gone on to commit other acts of a similar nature to other people.

Is this beautiful place where we and our family live, where we are soon to begin building our dream home and where we have set out to make our mark and our imaginings a reality – still the place that I want to call home?

I don’t know. Fear and danger are not things that I want for my family. And they make it difficult to feel content and to be happy. Of course, this is all so very complex and I am not the only person in the family to consider! And another country or city cannot just be made to feel like home because we wish it to be so.

In the mean time, I have decided on a new project for myself. Everyday, to focus on the little things about my home that make me smile. That make Joburg special, and sometimes even wonderful.

So, I’m going to aim, everyday, to capture in a picture something (other than a picture of Fynn who never fails to make me smile even when he makes me mad☺) to do with Joburg that has made me happy. This will require me, everyday, to take notice of and be grateful for all of the wonderful things and good that surround me.

And who knows, they may even trigger the same thoughts for someone else? It is for this reason that I will share these pics on my instagram and pinterest account. And just maybe you will decide to do the same? And we will have started a whole new project focusing not just on what needs to be fixed in our world, but also on what is good. And that good is often made up of or by the people who live around us, and the natural beauty of the place in which we live.

So, this is the first picture that I will post….

Samuel at BP in Hyde Park

A picture of Samuel (taken and posted here with his permission) who works at the BP garage on Jan Smuts in Hyde Park. I took this picture because Samuel has a fantastic sense of humour and took the time to chat and laugh with me. It was a privilege to meet him.

Not only that. The BP garage in Hyde Park is also known for the daily messages that are written on the chalk boards displayed for passers-by in the street. Thought provoking and inspiring, I know of people who make a point of driving past each day even if they don’t need fuel – to see the message of the day. I often do the same.

After telling Samuel how much I appreciate these messages, he was telling me of the lady, Alison, who writes them. And how often people stop to tell her and the team at BP how much they have meant to them in their daily lives. What an amazing thing for Alison and her team to do. Also not a bad way of getting people to fill up at their garage☺

And do you know what Samuel has offered to do?

To take a picture of the daily message everyday and whatsapp it to me! How lovely is that! He doesn’t know me from a bar of soap. I have already received 18 messages (today’s message and some previous one’s that he thinks are particularly inspiring). Even if he were never to send me another message – I find this act of generosity and kindness astounding. Something truly wonderful about living in Joburg and calling it home.

And what was today’s message? “Wherever you are, be all there”.

Updates on the new home project to follow in my next post…

4 thoughts on “A place to call home.

  1. Alison Leighton (Kingwill)

    What a beautiful post Aimee. I have tears in my eyes. I am so sorry to have heard what happened to you. Your an amazing person to try and turn the bad into something good. We should all do that and be ‘all there’. Hope you find your peace. Sending lots of love

  2. Shiree Darley

    Hi Aimee – this was sent to Gerrida but I am receiving her mails.

    You write so beautifully and are really inspiring – how can I receive your posts?

    [image: Untitled-8]

    *From:* beingmomdotcom [mailto:comment-reply@wordpress.com] *Sent:* 01 July 2015 07:43 PM *To:* gerrida@diad.co.za *Subject:* [New post] A place to call home.

    aimee posted: “I haven’t written for a while. I’ve been through a bit of a rough patch and it’s never easy to write about that, or to write about something different when that’s not really what’s on one’s mind. After much thought, I’ve decided that this journey of bl”

    • Thanks so much Shiree. I think you have to create an account and then click the option to follow my blog – and then my posts are emailed to you:)

  3. Kirsten Di Clemente

    My dear friend! All so beautifully written and all inner turmoils that we too are going through! But I love your approach to move forward and keep positive, inspired and happy. I look forward to your next post xxx

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